Farmgal

I spent the weekend In Manchester with my beautiful nephew Jr. Honestly that baby is cute and doesn’t cry much!

Anyway…..

I met up with a friend of mine, he told me this true story over a drink.
The weekend before last, he met one of his friend’s for a drink. They talked and talked and talked! This friend was on about the way he was going to get married to the woman he’d been living with for am not sure how long.

The were engaged!

Thing is this guy was being delusional cos they’d broken up the engagement and the chic had asked him to move out. He asked for time to sort himself out. On tuesday after the sato he was with my friend, he hang himself! I mean the guy is now DEAD!

At what point in ones life, do you decide you can’t LIVE without the person you love? I honestly hope and pray that no one reading this has ever considered suicide as an escape. If you have, please cast out that lie that the devil has planted in your heart!

Our magical HIV tests!

I was also thinking about the way you go out..meet someone, start dating, have sex using a condom, have some more sex using condoms…..then….. we become doctors and nurses and have sex without protection.
At what time in a relationship do you somehow have a magical test and decide your partner isn’t HIV positive? I think we’re plain stupid!

EDIT

Please read Mwari’s current post if you haven’t.

http://mwariwadavid.wordpress.com/

The matters at work have gone out of hand and am now left no choice but to seek legal advice. I’ll not be blogging about it for now cos I don’t know who’s larking around here. When it’s all resolved, I’ll share with you!

On other matters. Would you date an insecure person? I know from experience that it’s hard work! See….

A friend of mine was literally attacked by someone she considered a friend. She’d spent the day with this couple (The jamaa is my pal’s distant relative) and she’d gone to their house bearing a gift for their new born baby. She even assisted in food preparation for the guests who had come from out of town.

By the end of last sato night though, the woman claimed my pal was after her man. It was an ugly scene. I won’t share the details though. But the whole saga reminded me why I will never want to date an insecure man again!

One full time job is enough for me, thank you very much!

So yesterday, things went from bad to shall I say worst! And as much as I want to forgive and not do anything about this dude. I think I should write an official complaint.
My supervisor came to me and said that they all know thats how he treats people. So its become acceptable for one person to bully others.
One thing I hate about this company is the way the don’t deal with issues. They’d rather sweep them under the carpet! How is it that a company of such good repute get to allow such things to happen. I think everyone is scared of confrontation.

Anyway I have written a draft of my complaint. Now all I need to know is where to start. I doubt if there’s a procedure.

The positive thing about the whole issue is that, I may go ahead and apply for another job soon after I have handed in my complaint. I have of late been feeling alot of dislike for this jobo. I’m only here for the money to be honest.

Anyway will keep you posted!

I however have never felt so bullied in my life!

So, I finished the book about Grace yesterday and today am faced with an oportunity to forgive. This guy I work with (white) has decided to make me a target of I don’t know what. He decided that the websites I visit (Kenyaunlimited) is palying up with some programs on the comps at work.
It all kicked off last week when I used the comp for less than a minute to get a phone number. He dashed off to my supervisor to tell the dude that I was online. What he didn’t expect was for me to find him telling. since then he has decided that he will make it a personal mission of his for me not to be online at all.

Now My boss is a resonable guy and he lets us go online as long as it not during work. I told him and I told my supervisor that am feeling discriminated cos if the other peeps who are all white go online. The dude doesn’t tell on them.

Anyway how hilarious is God? He teaches you something and then gives you an opportunity to practise! Now am seething inside and at some point I wanted to go the the union! Yeah am seething that much but I know I have to forgive him cos he knows not what he’s doing!

I need to hold my peace!

And as for you Father …

He who can’t forgive another, breaks the bridge over which he must pass himself.

George Herbert