Farmgal

According to a relationship expert. 98% of people in relationships (men and women) have cheated or are cheating.

More married people are HIV positive than singles.

And according to Rants and Raves of a Kenyan gay guy. Between him and his friends, they know at least 30 married men who are sleeping with gay guys. Making them married gay men!

Going by the above ‘fact’s seems like marriages/relationships are under attack or doomed all together!

The other ’small’ fact is that 2% of those who haven’t cheated lack opportunity! What?????

Basically we’re supposed to accept the fact that cheating is inbuilt and that’s just the way we’re wired. Heavens, what will happen to those of us who believe in the one man/woman policy or thing. We probably need to keep off relationships – or what’s the other alternative?

One question I’d like answers to is

If you knew or suspected you partner is cheating, would you one, leave. Two, ask them to use a condom or what?

I believe it’s easier for men to grab a condom, slip it on, carry on and do the did if they suspect their partners of cheating.. No questions asked? And if one did get asked why they were using a condom then then can easily shrag that off and say ‘just’

On the other hand, if a woman suspects their partner of playing an away game. They can just ask the dude to start using a condom! Imagine this, “honey from today if you want some we’re using a condom dear” *Slap* By saying that, it’s saying that I know you’re cheating. How many people who are cheating actually take those kind of accusations kindly? I heard of the woman in Nakuru who was beaten senseless by the hubby for suggesting they use a condom. Why is it difficult for women to be in the driver’s seat when all matters condoms are in play, especially for those who are married or in long term relationships?

If you were or are in a relationship, what would you do? Would you bury your head in the sand and let the person you love infect you with some strange disease? Would you leave? (easier said than done by the way) And if you have kids and property together would you leave or make him/her to use a condom?

Men are known to believe that their clandes are faithful. Newsflash darlings…women who are sleeping with a married man are in it for the financial aspect. AAAAAAAAAAnd they have one married man for every need in case you can’t fulfill them all. The have one for the RENT, one for CAR maintenance, one for shopping, one for school fees in case it’s a single mum/dad one to appear with in public etc. If you’re able to cover all her financial needs,then there’s one for love! That’s a fact you should all know!

So when you’re sleeping with a clande, you’re not just sleeping with her but with at least five other guys who are sleeping with ten other chics, who are sleeping with 20 other men etc etc…am sure you get my drift.

How do you know if you partner’s cheating on you?
1. Sudden change in behavior.. change in routine etc
2.The “am working late” lie
3. Showering to go watch a match with pals and wearing cologne
4. Buying new clothes and especially underwear.

etc etc am sure there many more. Care to share.

This guy said he caught out his chic by diverting all her calls to his phone…

Went to Nairobi Light House church yesterday. Pastor Nelson asked some very valid questions.

Do you have an identity in Christ?
What’s your Identity in Christ?

It got me thinking……..

I hate bugs. And especially roaches…uuurrgggh! shudder times a thousand. What I do to make sure that I have non in my house.
1. Spray all shopping bags soon after unpacking my shopping.
2.Spray my handbag if I visit a house with roaches.
3.Clean dishes every night and spray my bin.
4. Spray drainage, spray storage areas ….etc etc

I still find one or two running around but very rarely.

Parliament proceedings have become like a circus! It’s not funny by the way.

Chris Brown…Shame on you!

Yesterday I saw one mende the size of someone’s pet matching out of Tusky Beba Beba…*shudder*

Aki orange is such a hoax! I’ve been trying to register my friends and family numbers so I can enjoy the 1 shilling phone calls for a few days now! I’ve called the free number, and they tell you to keep trying. I think they need to get punished for advertising something that’s not really available….aaarrrggghh

Hi all… I would like to ask anyone out there to please please buy me a Nairobi-San Diego plane ticket. It’s $1700 return.

Any secret valentines I have out there, this is what I would really love. The sevens start on the 14th….

Thank you!