Some, if not all of us are guilty of this two things. Picture this, you meet a girl/guy and a few weeks into the relationship. You’re going at it like bunnies. With protection of course cause you no do the HIV test yet! A few weeks into it or even the 3rd time you doing the dirty, we miraculously become doctors and AIDs kit testers. We give ourselves a clean bill of HEALTH!!! Takes only a few question eg Q: How many people have slept with? Answer: LIE. Q: Have you ever had unprotected sex before testing? Answer: LIE. Q: when is the last time you tested? Answer LIE or three months ago and last week! Etc etc
And just like that, condoms discarded or pushed to the bottom of the drawer in case we chipo in the near future.
Foreplay- we meet someone, spend lots of time going movies, coffee, dinners, walkies, talking, holding hands, laughing,sexting, texting, calling, complementing, showering, brushing our teeth before bed, kissing, caressing, caressing, touching, touching, touching ….
Then, we think it’s enough and you start jumping our wifeys two minutes into a fumbled bad breathe filled kiss! Quality mate, quality!
I’m trying to tie this two together cos the results are damning. In the first case you could be exposing yourself to disease and death. I know I know a bit too dramatic but you get my point. Second case leads to cheating (the unsatisfied party) loathing, hatred and the death of a relationship.
Don’t throw caution to the wind!