I’m sat here watching football (world cup 2014) and just wondering what your relationship’s bottom line is. Sadly, for most of us, the basis for our relationships is sex!
When you look back to the time when God created Eve for Adam, he presented her to Adam as a companion and a helper and not as a sex partner. Sadly, most of our relationships today are sexual and that is just that. That is why, when you want companionship, he/she is away spending time with the people that give him that which you can not give because after all, you’re just a sex partner whom he ended up marrying and is afraid to divorce for one reason or the other.
I’m not implying that we should not find companionship in other people but when you have a life partner you want that from them. You want to be able to spend time together whether you’re having sex or not, you have to be able to talk to one another, laugh together, plan, your life, pray together and for one another, cry together and do all those silly and important things with your companion and your helper.